The Not so Perfect Love. ! An old fashion view point to a modern day reality.
Body, Heart and Soul were discussing LOVE!
Each of them felt it had its own answers to why it worked, or for some it did not work. It was decided that each of them would go on a mini quest and find answers for love about love and why love is love.
They all agreed that this was only a snap shot and not a full blown quest as none of them wanted to go for hundreds of years to find they had forgotten why, what, when, how and where and lose sight of their end goal.
The world as they knew it changed and modern society had its own in take on all these things. It was agreed it would be relevant today’s groups with attributes of the past to back up theories and provide proof. (In other words it would end up on a Facebook page and some would agree and others, like! you might get the occasional love and most would not even bother to comment).
Body used her attributes to first sort out laws of attraction were they the same as always?
For she believed that ‘The eyes, were the entrance, to the soul’ so already she had a head start. She pondered for a moment, was love all about attraction or fatal attractions? Was this why so many fell at the first hurdle or was it the case that looks fade forcing them to then seek new admirers.
Body felt that Heart was so fickle she constantly made announcements about her latest conquest. For some it was here today and gone tomorrow her status changed like weather. Yet as of late it had been rather wet and damp. Was this due to the onset of winter or maybe she should choose another hemisphere where it was spring. Yes young love always seemed to blossom well in spring but even some of those countries had a reputation of getting wet.
Real love should last a life time but was that practical? Everyone had some sort of issues or hang ups. The majority came with baggage and by the time you sorted that out you were so tired you often fell at the first hurdle.
Soul believed she also had all the answers for she knew that she could bide her time and if all else failed made promises that those who took the chance would be rewarded in another time or place.
Love is blind for it does not see colour race gender religion. For all religions to work, they should all contain love. Like the practice of the Good Samaritan he chose to look at need rather than the gain. He put others first before his own safety he did not stop to think that this is not my problem. A saying came into mind of all it takes for problems to escalate.
‘A good man to do nothing’. (Edmund Burke) Loves expectation of responsibility was always hopeful she tried to be optimistic ‘she always looked on the bright side of life’. (A quote that is from meaning of life and I also read it once on a grave stone.)
(In reality of today society a bad boy won every time and the good ones became friend zoned.)
On every media site people spoke about who said this! And who did that! Whole lives history shown in colour and detail no wonder the other partner got fed up. Relationships were hard enough without Tom Codely and All stating views and opinions the old fashioned way of courtship out the window more now based on who got this and that. No wonder why the heart was fickle.
A silence fell for a few moments all were carious of the lurking Ego for he enjoyed causing mischief. Body, Heart and Soul were well aware of the problems or issues he loved to create without the insert of Hope and Faith this latest quest may not even reach its conclusion.
All was quiet perhaps Ego was still sleeping of his Human Hangover. This gave them chance to continue.
Soul stated that passion was what keeps love and relationships alive I can promise mine will last for ever as the soul lives on.
Body replied that physical attraction was needed either by voice, looks, nature, or even status. The desire or need of the human to want to fix someone was always an interesting diversion.
He/she loves me so it’s ok for them to treat me like Cr.p.
He/she’s cheated so it’s ok I just do the same and we be ok.
He/she’s selfish, mean, cruel, tight and downright horrible and two faced but is ok!
The Heart wants What the Heart wants!
Body, heart and soul were becoming side tracked so caught up the 21st Century media status they were all loosing site of love.
The real issues are that for love to work it takes two people to have a combination of likes and dislikes to be able to compromise and laughing at themselves before they laugh at others. Beauty fades and money goes and when the talking stops relationships can die and end. What is important is that we show that we are capable of forgiving again first ourselves before others. To not let social media influence our desire to be famous or in the news. I have known him/her a week and its true love. No true love is so much more than having a status on a site which says in a relationship.
Your goals and priorities are your children and families you already have and that those first have stable reliable people who love them.
For soul mates aren’t just a man and a woman. They are women and mother and daughters and sisters. They are fathers and grandfathers and brothers. They are real friends who give you a hug and say s.d them all.
Yes your heart can get broken but it can also heal if you let it. The body can get old and change in size and weight but love see through that because of the heart and soul. That’s why there are still some old folk been together for 50 years plus yes its getting rare but it still shows with the famous compromise all is possible.
Body, heart and soul smiled a sweet smile and said nothing love was blind but it was also a vision because it still held hope close to its heart, faith was close by and even in 2017 it was still showing that love prevails. Just try not to share your heart too closely or media sites which gives others the so called right to make comments you should find out in your own time and give love a chance.
Annielise Stone An old fashion twist to modern day life with love and relationships on considering others before yourself and full of good old fashioned common sense. 17/10/17
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